As kids, my older brother and I had nothing in common. We were connected by a house, a set of parents, and a couple of little brothers – nothing more. But somehow as we’ve grown, we’ve aligned. Now we’re often on the same page, in the things we find funny, the memories that stand out, what we want for and expect from our kids.
Yesterday, my brother and his family came over for brunch at our place. The usual plan-confirming text conversation went something like this:
– The girls’ swimming lessons are over at 10, and we’ll come over right after that.
– Sounds good.
– What can we bring? Don’t say nothing.
– Maybe some juice?
– Like, oj?
– Sure, thanks.
And he brought o.j.
My brother will go pretty far for a laugh. It’s a safe bet that if he thinks it’s funny, so will I. (O.J.-covered O.J. included.) So why is this? Has our shared childhood experience finally found us through the years of distance? Or is it in our genes? Maybe we’re genetically predisposed to think a poor-quality print of O.J. Simpson taped to an orange juice carton is funny. Whatever it is, I appreciate my family more now as an adult than I ever did when I was young.
Thanks for The Juice, big brother.